"Just get him assessed," they say. Then you find out the public wait is over a year, the private option is three thousand dollars, and nobody can tell you which door is the right one. Here's the honest map — from a doctor who isn't selling you an assessment.
More people than you'd think. You do not automatically need a specialist.
This is really a choice between money and time.
| Public | Private | |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | Covered — a physician or psychiatrist assessment costs you nothing directly | Roughly $2,000–$4,500 for a psychoeducational assessment (a little less in Quebec); usually not covered, though some benefit plans reimburse part |
| Wait | Often 6–18 months; longer in some regions (Quebec public psychiatry can exceed 2 years) | Frequently just a few weeks |
| Best when | You're not in a rush, or cost is the deciding factor | You need answers fast, or a detailed report for school/post-secondary accommodations |
Figures move around by city and clinic and year, so treat these as the shape of it, not a quote.
Usually, no — and this is the part that saves families the most stress. Schools can put an IEP and accommodations in place based on what they can see, not on a diagnosis. So you can start advocating today, while the assessment sits on a waitlist. A private report can strengthen your case and you'll likely want one eventually (colleges and universities usually require it), but "we're still waiting on the assessment" is not a reason for the school to do nothing.
Cheapest and fastest first step in the whole process: a conversation with the doctor you already have.
You don't need the report in hand to start.
Free 5-Line IEP Script The IEP Advocacy ToolkitPart of our guide: How to get an IEP for your ADHD child in Canada · In Ontario? The Ontario IPRC process, explained.