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Your kid isn't a diagnosis. They're three or four things, all at once.

Straight medical information for working mums raising neurodivergent, mental-health-affected, and gender-diverse kids — from a Canadian doctor who won't talk down to you, and won't sugar-coat it either.

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Who's writing this

A practicing physician & a parent doing the same 2am googling you are

I'm a licensed Canadian physician — and the mum of two kids who are neurodivergent and gender-diverse. So I read the research for a living, and I've also sat on the kitchen floor at midnight wondering if I'm getting any of this right.

This channel is what I wish someone had handed me: the medical facts, translated into plain language, next to what they actually look like on a Tuesday morning when nobody will put their shoes on. Every claim gets checked against current guidelines. Nothing gets dumbed down.

  • Licensed physician, Canada
  • Parent of neurodivergent & gender-diverse kids
  • Every claim checked against current guidelines
"Medical facts. Real family life. No judgement."
The whole channel, in five words.
Why this exists

Most parenting content picks a lane. Your family doesn't get to.

The ADHD accounts don't talk about gender. The gender resources don't cover the meltdown at 4pm. The mental-health pages assume one tidy diagnosis. But your kid is several of those things at once — and the advice has to hold all of them together, in Canada, in a real week.

What gets covered here

Four things, one household

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Neurodivergent kids

ADHD, autism, AuDHD & 2e — diagnosis pathways and school accommodations.

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Child & teen mental health

Anxiety, mood, and the behaviour changes that are really distress in disguise.

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Supporting gender-diverse youth

Evidence-based, non-partisan guidance for families — how to stay in the room.

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Working-mum wellness

Burnout, guilt, and the family systems that carry all of it.

From the channel

Latest notes

Medication

Will Medication Change Who My Child Is?

The prescription that sat on my counter for three weeks, the "zombie kid" fear turned right-side up, and how this actually works in Canada.

6 min read · Video 4 companion · Read →
School & IEP

The Four Phrases That Change Your Child's IEP Meeting

You don't need a diagnosis to start, and you're not there to receive a plan — you're there to negotiate one.

5 min read · Video 3 companion · Read →
ADHD

Running in Circles: What's Actually Happening in Your ADHD Child's Brain

The elevator shaft, the framework I didn't have, and why the behaviour is usually the solution — not the problem.

5 min read · Video 2 companion · Read →
Our story

The Parking Lot (Why I Started This Channel)

Forty-five minutes, engine off, kids inside — and the gap in Canadian parenting content that turned that day into this channel.

6 min read · Video 1 companion · Read →
Launch post

I'm a Canadian GP and a mum of two neurodivergent kids…

Why "Raising Complex Kids Canada" exists, and what the gap in Canadian parenting content actually looks like.

6 min read · Launch post · Read →
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Watch the videos these notes come from →

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The Point-of-Performance Home Map

The Point-of-Performance Home Map

Your child's three hardest moments — where, when, and which scaffold goes right there.

 The Sleep Window

The Sleep Window

Work backward from asleep — lights, screens, the signal, and the morning that moves the clock.

 The Homework Truce

The Homework Truce

The after-school reset, the ten-minute script, and the sentence that gets the school to right-size it.

 The Storm Plan

The Storm Plan

The warning signs, what empties the tank, and who does what when the meltdown hits.

 The 5-Line IEP Script

The 5-Line IEP Script

The five sentences that move a school meeting from conversation to record — and what to ask before a diagnosis.
The toolkit

For when the free stuff isn't enough — and the meeting is Tuesday

The one paid thing here. Everything you need to walk into an IEP meeting prepared, in English or French.

The Canadian IEP Advocacy Toolkit — English and French
CAD $27 · instant download

The Canadian IEP Advocacy Toolkit

Walk into the meeting prepared, ask for the right things by name, and leave with the answer in writing — whatever that answer is. Built by someone who's sat on both sides of that table.

🍁 English + French · anglais + français
  • Pre-meeting prep checklist
  • Your child's one-page profile
  • Accommodations request menu
  • The meeting script pack
  • "When they say no" templates
  • Provincial rights: AB · ON · BC · QC
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2 print-ready PDFs (EN + FR) · school-advocacy help, not medical advice.
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